Question.3057 - Blending Relationships: Managing Competing loyalties
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Which xx Gottman xxxxxx type xxxxx s xxxx describe xxx relationship xxxxxxx Helene xxxxxxxx and xxxx Explain xxxxx reading xxx case xxxxx we xxx able xx identify xxxx Helene xxxxx and xxxx have x volatile xxxxxxxxxxxx between xxxx Volatile xxxxxxxxxxxx is x relationship xx which xxxxx are xxxxxxxxxx dispute xxx conflicts xxx both xxxxxxxx whether xxxxxxxx or xxxxxxxx are xxxxxxxxx In xxxxxxxx couple xxx s xxxxxxxxxxxx equal xxxxxx is xxxxx of xxxx and xxxxx person xxxx leading xx equal xxxxxx and xxxxxxxxx occur xx resolve xxxxxx which xxxxxxxxx end xxxxxxxxxx and xxxxxxxxx not xx volatile xxxxxxxxxxxx no xxx agrees xx another xxx rsquo x point xx view xxx try xxxxxxxxxx to xxx the xxxxxxxxxxxx But xx general xxxxx it xx seen xxxx they xxxxxxx disputes xxx differences xxx despite xx these xxxxxxxxx and xxxxxxxxxxx they xxxxx a xxxx bonding xxx vibrant xxxxxxxxxxxx Volatile xxxxxxx are xxxx emotional xxx maybe xxxx fight xxxx but xxxx love xxxx other xxx tries xx maintain xxxxx relationship xx can xxx from xxx article xxxx there xxx many xxxxxx between xxxxxx Aaron xxx Jill xxx then xxxx somewhere xxxxxx bonding xxxx and xxxxxxxxxx relationship xxx be xxxx How xxxx the xxxxx interaction xxxxxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxx from xxxxxxxxxxx interaction xxx course xx the xxxxx interactions xxxxxxx Helene xxxxx and xxxx differ xxxx second xxxxxxxxxxx between xxxx We xxxx read xxxx Jill xxxx fun xx Helene xxxx she xxxxx about xxx interest xx law xxxxxx by xxxxxx ldquo xxxxxx are xxx smart xxxxxx to xx to xxx School xxxxx at xxxx time xxxxxx feels xxx but xxxxx consoles xxx saying xxx was xxxxxx It xxxxx that xx does xxx take xxxxxxxx in xxxxxxxxxxxxx Then xx looked xxx conversation xxxxx Aaron xxx Helene xxx engaged xxx find xxxx Jill xxx more xxxxxxxx towards xxxxxx as xxx took xxxxxxxx that xxxxxxxxxx not xx to xxx house xx celebrate xxxxxxxxx and xxxxx does xxx say x word xx his xxxxxx despite xxxxxxx Helene xxxxx Christmas xxx would xxxx to xx with xxx family xxxx no xxxxxx was xxxxx for xxxxxxxxx celebration xxxxxxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxxxxx about xx But xxxxxxxxxx when xx comes xx discussion xx Jill xxxxx s xxxxx singing xx the xxxxxxx or xxxxxx quartet xxxx perform xx that xxxx it xxx seen xxxx Aaron xxxxx to xxxxxxx going xxxxxxx between xxxxxx and xxxxx as xx tried xx convince xxx mother xxx both xxxxxx singing xxx string xxxxxxx And xxxx Helene xxxx the xxxx and xxx mother xxxxx annoyed xx tried xx make xxx calm xx saying xxxx Helene xx very xxxxxxxx and xx not xxxx things xxxxxxxxxx which xxxxx he xx filling xxx gap xxxxxxx them xxxxxxxxx he xxxx makes xxxxxx understand xxxx he xxxxx not xxxx his xxx to xx to xxx cousin xxx say xxxx you xxx out xx this xxxxxxx So xx can xxxx both xxx items xx that xxx and xxx both xxx be xxxxx What xxx the xxxxx indications xx trouble xxxxxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxxxxxxxx examples xxxx their xxxxxxxxxxxx First xxxxxxxxxxx of xxxxxxxx were xxxx when xxxxxx and xxxxxx family xxxxxxx meeting xxx conversation xxxx between xxxx and xxxxxx For x g xxxxxx finds xxx that xxxxx mother xxxx is xxxxxxxxxxx Aaron xxx burdening xxx with xxx opinions xx many xxxxxx of xxxxx Jill xxxx has xxxxxxxx feelings xxxxx Helene xxx whenever xxxxxx speaks xxxxx all xxxx with xxxxx either xxx Helene xx understand xxx mom xx he xxxx rsquo x say xx go xxxxxxx his xxxxxx Many xxxxx he xxxxxxxxx not xx hear xxx many xxxxx he xxxxxx topics xxxxx becomes xxxxxxx whenever xxxxxx says xxxxxxxxx about xxx mother xxxx she xx hurting xxx We xxx find xxx these xxxxxxxx in xxx case xxxxx How xxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxxx contempt xxx one xxxxxxx Cite xxxxxxxx examples xxxx their xxxxxxxxxxxx and xxxxxxxxx common xxxxx of xxxxxxxx within xxxxx interactions xx can xxxxxx find xx case xxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxxx contempt xxx one xxxxxxx We xxxx read xxxx Helene xxxx not xxxx the xxxxxx of xxxxxx of xxxxx of xxxxxxxxxxx Aaron xxx burdening xxx opinions xx him xxxxxxxx she xxxx not xxxx that xxxxx never xxxxxx a xxxx for xxx in xxxxx of xxx mother xxxxx can xx easily xxxxxx by xxxxx ldquo xxxxx it xx impossible xxx you xx stand xx to xxx once xxxxx On xxx other xxxx we xxx see xxxx Jill xxxxx to xxxx Helene xxxxxxxx whenever xxx can xx it xx sentences xxxx ldquo xxxxxx are xxx smart xxxxxx to xx to xxx school xxxxx and xxxxx Is xxxx how xxx always xxxxxx to x little xxxxxxxxxxxx rdquo xx can xxxxxx find xxx contempt xxx also xxxxxxx taking xxxxxxxxx of xxxxxx life xxxxxxx asking xxx which xxx be xxxxxxx seen xx conversations xx the xxxxxx dinner xxxxxxx Jill xxx parents xx Helene xxx Jill xxxxxxx that xxxxx and xxxxxx will xxx go xxx Christmas xx Helene xxxxx While xx we xxxx about xxxxx he xxxx not xxxx contempt xxx unintentionally xx not xxxxxxxxx to xxxxxx and xxx resolving xxx problems xx raised xxxxxxxx in xxxx of xxxxxx for xxx How xx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxxx defensiveness xxxx specific xxxxxxxx from xxxxx interactions xxx reference xxxxxx type xx defensive xxxxxxxx within xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Defensiveness xx a xxxxxxxxx where xxxxxxx personality xx seen xxxxxxx are xxxx negative xxxxxxxxxxxxx is xxxx walking xxxx from xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx and xxxxxxx complaining xx done xx have xxxx that xxxxx showed x defensive xxxxxxx in xxxx of xxxxxxxxxx where xx started xxxxxxxx what xxxxxx is xxxxxx by xxxxxxxxxx that xx had xxx listened xx changing xxx topic xxx running xxxx responsibilities xx listen xx what xxxxx wants xxxx him xxxx can xx shownby xxxxxxx lines xxxxx He xxxxxx pretended xxx to xxxx or xxxxx to xxxxxx the xxxxx to x friendlier xxxxx rdquo xxxx follows xxx superiority xxxxxxxxxxxxx where xxx takes xxxxxxxxx for xxxxx and xxxxx for xxx celebrating xxxxxxxxx with xxxxxx family xxx when xxx Helene xxxxx s xxxxxx tried xx say xxxxxxxxx she xxxx ldquo x hate xxxxxxxxxxxx You xxx have xxxx then xxxxx Helene xxxxxxx defensiveness xxxx her xxxxx time xxxxx her xxxxxxxx and xxxxxxxxx Aaron xxxx and xxxxx time xxx her xxxxxx amp x behavior xxx blames xxxxx for xxx listening xx her xxx not xxxxxx anything xx his xxxxxx It xxx clearly xxxx from xxx following xxxxxxxx ldquo xxxxx it xx impossible xxx you xx stand xx to xxx once xxxxx ldquo xx this xxx always xxxxx to xx with xx Are xxx always xxxxx to xxxx with xxxx mother xxx never xxxxx up xxx me xx the xxxxxxxxx we xxxx together xxxxx What xxx two xxxxxxx explanations xxx the xxxxxxxxxxxxx differences xxxxxxx sexes xxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxxx these xxxxxxxxxxxxx differences xx has xxxx seen xxxx physiological xxxxxxxxxxx between xxxxx can xx influenced xx social xxx cultural xxxxxxxxx Physiological xxxxxxxxxx also xxxxx to xxxxxxxxx behavior xxxxxxx sexes xxx e x Women xxxxxxxxx share xxxxx problems xxxx others xxxxx man xxxx not xxx try xx resolve xxxx on xxxxx own xxxxxxxx woman xx more xxxxxxxxx and xxxxxxxxxx while xxx are xxxxxxxxxx and xxxxxxxxx If xx talk xxxxx this xxxx we xxx see xxxx Helene xxxx times xxxx her xxxxxxx to xxxxx regarding xxx mother xxxxx shows xxxxxxxxxx jealousy xxx emotional xxxxxxxx and xxxx was xxxxx by xxxx sometimes xx Helene xxx sometimes xx Aaron xx the xxxxx hand xx was xxxx that xxxxx was x diplomat xxx tries xx keep xxxx his xxxxxx and xxxxxx happy xxx does xxx add xxxx the xxxxxxxx He xxxxx to xxxxxxxx practicability xxxxx pieces xx Gottman xxxxx s xxxxxx for xxxxxxxx couples xxxxx be xxxxxxx to xxxxx andHelene xxx Jill xxx Gottman xxxxxxxx some xxxxxx advices xxx volatile xxxxxxx like xxxxx He xxxx that xxxxxxxx to xxxxxxxx feeling xxxxx should xx that xxxx there xxxxxx be xxxxxxxx feelings xx one xxxxxxxx feeling xxxxxxxx learn xx calm xxxx and xxxxxx to xxxx other xxxxx s xxxxx of xxxx and xxxxxxxxxx what xxx other xxxxxx is xxxxxx to xxxxx Thirdly xxxxxxxx your xxxxxxx and xxxx you xx his xx her xxxxx to xxxxxxx his xx her xxxxxxxxx Understanding xxxxxxx emotional xxxxx and xxxxxxx is xxxx important xxxx if xx speak xxxxx Helene xxx should xxxxxxxxxx the xxxxxxxxx of xxxxx that xxxx is xxx mother xxx elder xx him xx every xxxx he xxx rsquo x oppose xxx mother xxx everything xxx should xxxx see xxxx positive xxxxxxxx of xxxx about xxx son xxx s xxxxxxxx and xxx to xxxxxxxxxx her xxxxxxxx Jill xxxx needs xx take xxxx of xxxxxxxx of xxxxxx as xxx is xxx in xxxxx atmosphere xxx try xxx to xxxxxx her xxxxxxxx on xxxxxx or xxxxx On xxxxx hand xxxxx should xxxxxx listen xx Helen xxxxxxxx and xxx to xxxx her xxxxxxxxxx and xxxx to xxx mother xxxxx the xxxxxxxx of xxxxxx rather xxxxxxxx them xxx to xxxxxxxxxx her xxxxxxxxx in xxx places xxxxx pieces xx Gottman xxxxx s xxxxxx for xxxxxxxxxx disagreements xxxxx be xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx for xxxxxx and xxxxx and xxxx Explain xxxxxxx four xxxxxxxx of xxx apocalypse xxx very xxxxxx for xxxxx and xxxxx and xxxx which xxxxxxxx in xxxxxxxxx way-Criticism xxxxx It xxxxxxxx attacking xxxx partner xxxxxxxxx or xxxxxxxxxxx Therefore xx should xx avoided xx showing xxxxxxxxxxxx upon xxxx issue xx this xxxx as xxxxxx has xxxx to xxxxx that xxx at xxxx you xxx stand xx to xxx at xxxx or xxx our xxxxxxxxx is xxxxxx criticising xxxxx character xxx personality xxxxx should xx avoided xxxxxxxx ndash xxxxxxxx shows xxxxxxxxxx someone xxx insulting xxx person xx involves xxxxxx fun xx other xx public xxx makes xxx person xxxx inferior xxxx this xxxxxx be xxxxxxx Jill xxx Helen xxxx have xxxx mistakes xx Jill xxxx fun xx Helene xx saying xxxx are xxx smart xxxxxx to xx to xxx school xxx made xxxxxxxxx herself xxx Aaron xxx Helene xx the xxxxx side xx last xxxxxxxxxx Helene xxxxx the xxxxxxxxxx in xxxxxxx which xxxxx disrespect xxxxxxx Jill xxxxxxxxxxxxx ndash xxxxxxxxxxxxx is x situation xxxxx neutrality xx adopted xxx excuses xxx made xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx are xxxxxx Helene xxx Aaron xxx Jill xxxxxx defensive xxxxx creates xxxxxxx in xxxxx relationship xxxx they xxxx to xxxxx the xxxxxxxxx actions xxx try xx understand xxxx other xxx to xxxxxxx problems xxxxxxx them xxx take xxxxxxxx decisions xxxxxxxxxxxx ndash xx this xxxxxx stop xxxxxxxxxx to xxx matters xxx issues xxxxx create xxxx between xxxxxxxx So xxxxx doing xx on x regular xxxxx because xx can xxxxx destruction xx your xxxxxxxx Generally xxx does xxxx as xxxxxxxx to xxxxx Aaron xxx also xxxx such xxxx of xxxxx to xxxxx when xxx tries xx tell xxx her xxxxxxxx regarding xxx nature xx Jill xxxxx finally xxxxx to xxxxx think xxxx Aaron xxxx never xxxxxxx her xx any xxxxx Thus xx these xxxxxx can xx managed xxxxxxxxxxxxx can xx re xxxxxxxxx ReferencesTransition xx the xxxxxxxxxxx Ratio xxxxxxxxxx Retrieved xxxx fromhttp xxx eatstress xxx transition xxxxxxxxxx J xxxxxx Glassmann xxx marriages xxxxxxx or xxxx Retrieved xxxx fromhttp xxx couplestherapydoc xxx images xxx marriages xxxxxxx or xxxx pdfMarriage xxxxxxxxxx and xxxxxx Therapists xx Montgomeryville xx Three xxxx Marriages xxxxxxx Retrieved xxxx from xxxx www xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx com xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx htmlHome x Helping xxxxxxxxx Work xxxx Gottman xxxxx s xxxx HORSEMEN xx THEAPOCALYPSE xxxxxxxxx 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